Recent tragic press reports have again highlighted the frightening and dangerous consequences of bullying of children in our schools. The suicide of a Massachusetts 15 year old has resulted in potential felony charges against students and others for their contributory actions and a call for anti-bullying legislation in that State. Every day in almost every school there are children who are exposed to real threats of bullying. Children with disabilities are often the most vulnerable.
In October 2009, the Bureau of Justice Statistics released its report of Crimes Against People with Disabilities, 2007. This report confirms what many parents and advocates know from their own experiences – persons with disabilities have a much greater chance of being the victims of crime than others. One specific finding shows that “persons with a cognitive functioning disability had a higher risk of violent victimization than persons with any other type of disability”. We often review cases of children with autism who are not able to easily recognize social cues that make them easy targets for bullying by aggressive peers. When these situations are not recognized and addressed, the results can be very serious.
Beyond the call for anti-bullying legislation, parents, educators and advocates need to be vigilant regarding the problem of bullying of all children, but particularly children with disabilities. Special needs children may not always be able to explain the causes of the frustration they feel about school social situations. A child’s growing school phobia is an important symptom and needs close and objective scrutiny. When a child with autism is disciplined for uncharacteristic reactive behavior against peers or teachers, it warrants an inquiry into the root causes of this behavior. Close communication and coordination between educators and parents is essential. Telling parents that “the school is handling it” and that information exchange is impossible due to confidentiality concerns is inadequate and not helpful. Certainly confidentiality is important, but so is safety and enough appropriate information needs to be shared to prevent the bullying of children.
The problem of bullying of special needs children has been with us for a long time. It is as personal as each of the individual stories of these children. The solutions require attention, diligence and a common understanding of how these children are uniquely vulnerable.